This personality disorder is often associated with hoarding. It seems to be the malady of the obsessively clean and the obsessively untidy. Here is a site of from a woman that left a ‘control freak’ and the damage he inflicted upon her.
There is a lot of information here from the varied angles of describing OCPD and it’s harmful effects. Perfectly Awful is not only insightful about the disorder with lots of resources to peruse, but it is also helpful for the woman writing it as she attempts to rebuild her dignity after that bout with the ‘control freak’. There is also information about Hoarding. Hoarders of course are the supreme controllers of their environment…just try and change it. Give it a read.