Adult Foster Care: competent, sincere care for a loved elder is a relief when life flows at you from different directions. Moving a daughter from one college (OSU) to another (UW) requires some logistical commitments. It also means my little aunt will have to sit in a safe, monitored environment without our visits. I will be thinking of her and checking with the staff. If she is alert enough, we will try to visit via phone while out on the big road. There is a definite tug to not let her feel abandoned.